5 ways to keep your boyfriend happy!
Let’s give the guys some slack for now or at least for the sake of this article. Each man is different to some extent, but at the same time we are similar in many ways. In a society, where certain expected traits and personality dictate what a real ‘Man’ should look like, this can often complicate things for both the woman and the man. I really want to get to the point, and of course there are so many “unknown facts” about men and relationships that I would love to share with you in this article, but it would be too big an encyclopedia. So, without further ado, here are the top 5 things to do to keep your boyfriend HAPPY!
Let a man be a man.
Us everybody they have evolved incredibly from the 70’s to the 80’s and into the 90’s. So here we are: BIG changes! We understand! From Destiny’s nursery rhyme ‘Independent Women’ to Beyonce’s infamous ‘Single Ladies’. We hear and see it every day. From the moment we leave the house to go to work or stand in line at Starbucks and listen to you order your latte to the exact specifications down to the last grain of granulated brown sugar. We read the memo and soaked up the concept. So, there are daily tasks that you can easily complete without the help of a man. Believe it or not, we barbarian men cannot fully comprehend this idea. A man has to feel that he is a man, but most of all, he needs to feel that he is needed. This is easy to do, but ladies, this usually means you have to swallow your pride. Every relationship is different, so I can’t tell you exactly what to do, but I’ll give you a quick example.
Something as simple as taking out the garbage can allow a Man to be a Man. Maybe one day you can act as if the garbage bag is too heavy to carry, even if it weighs half as much as your purse. Let Superman take out the trash and watch him smile and look at you, Lana Lane. We still want to rescue Princess Fiona! I’m not telling you to cheat on your partner, but to find ways that make her feel like she’s contributing to the relationship. I don’t know if you are a super independent woman or what your situation is with your boyfriend. Maybe sometimes, laugh at his corny jokes from time to time. You know what to do. Just let the idea marinate for a moment. On another quick note, our brides almost always enhance our personality and almost 99.9% of the time you give us a total makeover from the inside out. We are grateful for this goal at the same time that a part of our identity It’s taken away. Sometimes we men like to scratch our butts and act primitive in our cozy caves and trust me when I tell you this… we WILL LOVE you even more, if you let us do this once in a while. When in doubt, memorize the phrase ‘Let a man be a man but of course, use it sparingly. You will soon see that this method correspond also:). It’s about mutual contribution, compromise, and randomly swallowing our prides that will bond relationships and keep that special guy or caveman.
Family friends.
Yes, this is a difficult situation and it can easily backfire and make things worse, but the most important thing to remember is the nature of your intent. I’m sure by now you don’t like a lot of your boyfriend’s friends or family members, like his nosy mom, his mean older brother, or his nosy sister. It is not a problem at all. You are better than everyone. You are the right hand of your boyfriend, Woman! Get involved in her life, but not too aggressively. Show him that you can hang out with him and his friends at a crappy lounge or club. Show him that as much as his mother doesn’t like you; that you’re better than that and that you’ll do whatever it takes to be a part of your boyfriend’s life, even if it means being part of the Manson Family. I don’t know what kind of BF you have, if your man is a mama’s boy or not (that’s another long topic), but the point is your intention to go the extra mile to do whatever it takes. Nothing is worse for a man to hear you say I don’t want to see your family because they’re a bunch of weirdos. Your boyfriend already knows this and expects something different from you. In short, whether your boyfriend has a nasty, rude best friend or a crazy family, none of that matters at all, because you’ve transcended in ‘Gandhi.’ You will be a cool girl, hang out and adapt to your surroundings. I’m not saying don’t mention anything to Bobby Boyfriend about how you feel about him. to them. Just like a sticky note, get the message across, even if it takes 2-3 times for the sticky note to “stick”. Tell him passively with some firmness, if that makes any sense, and he’ll understand, he’ll understand.
Space – Not in His Face.
Pretty self-explanatory, but just in case, here goes… Give him ‘Space and don’t be all in his Face’. There are some men out there who won’t dream of leaving your side, ever And again, that’s another tricky issue. I firmly believe in the idea of ’Space’. It goes for both genders. Our space is part of our identity. We all go through the stage where you go out for the first time with that special someone; you want to spend time together most of the time, but as the relationship develops, we all need our ‘Space’. For us Merry Men, our space can be as simple as spending some time alone, playing Rock Band with the boys, running around in our He-Man underwear when you’re not home, and watching the football game while you grab a bite to eat. old-fashioned junk. foods that are not on your approved list of healthy foods. Maybe set a few days of the week for your boyfriend to have his ‘Space’. This will also give you some space and more time to do what you want to do and strengthen your relationship at the same time. Using this method, they will have the opportunity to miss each other. So give her space, then you’ll have your own space too, and later that night you can share an intimate space together.
You, Him and Arguments.
One of the main reasons for breakups is arguments! There is certainly no way around or preventing this, it’s just going to happen. Men hate long arguments.. Arguments that last for hours, even days. So he screwed up and forgot to remember your birthday, maybe she forgot to close the fridge door, or she was late for the most important day of your life.
I’m not saying I’m right or wrong, but dependent how serious the situation is: it is important to discuss, make your case, go ahead and give him a beer. Sooner or later, if you keep arguing with him over every little thing and stay mad at him for days, he will make the best possible choice: leave the relationship or cheat on you. Unfortunately, most men, instead of solving situations, tend to run like the roadrunner. Just argue with him and after all the fuss and fighting come to terms and get over it. Note that I’m talking about ‘little arguments’, not life-changing arguments or awkward situations like when he sleeps with his sister or finds out he has another wife in Italy named Bella, etc, etc. Other than those serious cases, discuss and let it go. Use this tactic, it will work! He’ll realize you’re not a constant pain in the butt, and he’ll start to pick up on his friend’s girlfriend’s sinister attitudes in argument art. He will be so grateful to have you as his girlfriend and again ladies, you will reciprocate this too! Bottom line, don’t hold grudges for too long when it comes to arguments. LET IT GO and live your happy life with your boy.
love and good food
This is probably the most important of them all, ‘Love & Good Food’. Although it seems that most of our women already give us an inordinate amount of affection, and we men sometimes seem indifferent or ‘act’ as if we don’t care. The truth is that we love it! We love love and attention! And we will never, ever admit it! Even now, I’m not admitting anything! Love, affection, gives us that extra boost of confidence. So if you are the many who already show enough of this love potion, give a little more because there is plenty for everyone. I’m not saying follow him around the house, and when he has to go to the bathroom and do number 2, give him a hug and clap for a job well done. What I mean is, give us love when it is really needed. Listen, we have a lot of hobbies you’ll never get involved in and might even ‘think’ is a waste of time. THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT TIME TO SHOW YOUR LOVE AND INTEREST! I apologize for the capitalization in the previous sentence, but if you didn’t understand anything else, remember that last line. It’s impossible to like everything your partner does, but at least try to get involved and show interest in the things they like. Take the initiative. For example, if you like Star Trek, look online for the next convention in town or anything Star Trek related. You don’t necessarily have to go and join him, but at least he feels like you know how important he is to him, and he won’t mind if you’re not passionate about him. He knows that you recognize and respect his hobby. Oh no, he’s back again: here are some more reciprocal points for you. OK, I’m thinking of changing the name of this article to ‘How to make our women happy’ ;).
In another sector of Love, let’s quickly talk about intimate LOVE. Just do what you’re doing now, but add a bit of flavor to it. So he likes Star Trek, surprise him one day and wear a sexy Star Trek outfit. Show him your daring side. Just mix it up from time to time. Hey here’s a ‘Great secret’, after making love, he gets up quickly and brings her a cold beer and a sandwich. You to know what your man loves! Imagine giving him something he loves right after making a scream! He just loves sex, now just give him something he loves right after sex and watch his toes curl. For most men it’s a good cold beer and ‘good food’. Which finally brings us to our last topic. In a society where both men and women are in Hell’s Kitchen, it’s hard to say who Chef Boyardee is today. Find out his favorite dish and try to make it. remember the intention is important, not your culinary skills. If you really want to put in some effort and time, find out what her mom’s favorite food was for her. Many times, we connect food with a certain emotion or warm moment. Like in an episode of Martin, where Gina tried to duplicate Martin’s mom’s cookies, though she was unsuccessful. He understood her intention. Martin connects his mom’s cookie with a warm and fuzzy feeling. If you can make her Good Food with the emotion attached to it, great, but if that’s not possible, just walk into the kitchen and make her a new dish that she’ll love. He may be a busy professional who doesn’t have time to cook or just doesn’t know how to cook. If your boyfriend, fiancée or significant other is worth it, you will try to cook or at least take some cooking classes. Even if you can only cook once a week, give it a try!
I really appreciate you taking time out of your day to read this important article that could preserve your relationship with your guy. Be patient, use these techniques, they will work! You’re probably thinking that I actually gave you 6 tips, but I only gave you 5. You see Love is good food.