Learning about love and love: 7 secrets to maximize love
Love is a noun personified in the divine nature of our Creator and also a verb that must be experienced in order to be fully understood and understood. In the beginning, the Creator made them male and female to express His love to the individual and to form a perfect union in which love could be shaped and expressed to humanity.
Love prompts us to give ourselves freely and wholeheartedly. Love at its finest is experienced when you are giving yourself and at the same time you are the recipient of someone else’s love and affection. The give and take element of love is mentally incomprehensible, inwardly intangible, and undoubtedly incomparable to all other experiences in life.
To learn about love and love, it is necessary to experience it and understand the different levels of love. The Greek language provides us with three words for love: phileo, eros, and agape. Each has its own place and importance.
Phileo is representative of a type of brotherly love in which there is mutual benefit, exchange, and association. The old adage “You scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours.” could be an example. That love is most often based on need and mutual benefit.
Eros is romantic love, which in addition to internal images and emotions is experienced and expressed mainly through the senses. When one thinks of romance, what stimulates the senses immediately comes to mind: it attracts the elegant night, red roses, fine wine, gourmet dinners, intimate conversations, captivating perfumes, enchanting music, holding hands and tender kisses are exhilarating. sensory that add to the accumulation. romantic love effect.
Agape is the highest and deepest form of love, as it is freely given unconditionally with no prerequisites before expressing itself. Agape love is the kind of love from God that does not give and does not expect anything in return. Agape does not keep any error logs, does not require reciprocity, and grants itself whether or not one is worthy of receiving it. Such love is truly out of this world and incomprehensible to modern men.
I have been privileged to experience love on all three levels. However, I can honestly say that it is the agape form of love that I find most amazing.
As a kid, he was often a selfish brat. However, my parents continued to love me kindly while enduring such behavior. Of course, at that moment, being immersed in the moment and obsessed with my immediate desires, I had no idea about my attitude and behavior. Fortunately, my parents patiently continued to show me unconditional love until I came of age and in the place of personal conscience.
During my adult life I was also fortunate to receive undeserved love, favor, and prayers from ministers around the world. Such displays of unconditional love and personal sacrifice have truly had a profound impact on my own life.
As someone who understands by experience God’s agape type of love, I now know why the Holy Bible declares, “God is love.” Such unconditional love that is out of this world truly embodies the Creator’s heart for us, His creation. It is amazing that God above loves and gives Himself for us below to experience heaven on earth.
So far in my love journey I have learned the following.
The first step to improving your self-esteem is cultivating a healthy love for yourself. You cannot give what you do not have first. We love others as we love ourselves. People who don’t treat others well often mistreat themselves internally through their daily self-talk and self-talk.
You must come to know and realize that you are valuable, special, and a unique gift to humanity and the earth. Although not everyone celebrates you, undoubtedly someone will and that is what you were created for. Most importantly, remember that in the heart of your Creator, who shaped you and shaped His image, you are a masterpiece and a unique original. So, don’t die like a copy trying to fit in and be like everyone else. Be yourself and celebrate your authenticity. As you begin to celebrate who you are, your identity will become firmly established, after which your destiny will unfold. You are who you are because of what you are!
When you glimpse and begin to understand the love that the Creator has for you, His creation, your image, self-esteem, and self-awareness will change and improve.
Once established in your personality and identity (not based on what you do, but who you are in the heart of your Creator), you will more easily discover and locate your intended destination. Ultimately, identity is destiny. Therefore, it is critical that you establish yourself in your identity before launching prematurely to secure your fate.
2. As you draw closer to your Creator, the Source of all life, you in turn will experience new love and new life.
In doing so, you will experience unconditional love that you have never known, limitless love that will expand the perimeters of your heart and soul, causing you to overflow joyfully!
The connection with your Creator can occur when you observe and enjoy nature, meditate on life in general, do a personal examination of conscience regarding your own level of self-awareness and the areas of your life in which you seek personal improvement and pour out your heart without shame. to the One who already knows you inside and out.
Take some “me time” to examine your heart, reflect on the path you want to take, and strategically align yourself with your inner desires. Like a flower that blooms in season, do not ignore the various seasons of the soul. Allow yourself a winter season for introspection, self-evaluation, contemplation, and transformation.
Don’t expect people to fully understand you because they are not you. Go to your Creator for the inner restoration of the soul so that you can emerge whole. Pour out your heart to the One who sits in heaven and is a very present help in times of distress. As you do, you will emerge victorious from what you are going through and manifest a new you!
3. Sharing your love and faith with others further magnifies and intensifies the experience for you!
People of equally precious faith can be located by attending a church, synagogue, or temple with like-minded people. Associations and organizations also often provide a forum for people with common ideological and spiritual beliefs to interact and celebrate with each other.
4. Acting on your feelings of love, inner impressions, and motivations also further increases the amount of love you give and receive on a daily basis.
Faith and love must be both a fact and an act. He loves not only in language, but also in fact and in truth. Serving others is what love is all about. Service is love in work clothes. Begin to prefer others to yourself and serve them from the heart. As you do, those displays of love and affection are sure to come back to you.
5. Be vulnerable and boldly express your love!
Don’t hide your feelings to fit in. Get out of the emotional straitjacket and routine that seeks to enslave your soul. Live with passion and feeling! So what if people misunderstand or misunderstand you? That’s his problem. However, you must be real, live an authentic life, and express your feelings to others. Allow yourself to be vulnerable to people. Take off your mask and stop trying to fit.
The path to success may not be clear, but the sure path to failure is trying to please everyone. Be yourself. Live authentically and express yourself freely. Love without regrets. If your heart is broken, you can make a breakthrough! Bold love is better than unexpressed love that just haunts you inside. Let the walls come down and let your love go out and abound!
6. Forget the past and move forward with enthusiasm to your future.
Your past is behind you and you can’t do anything about it. Fail Forward! Learn from the past. Acknowledge your negligence and your contributing mistakes, but move on! Don’t sabotage your present and your future by concentrating on the past. Stop seeking closure on unresolved issues and instead let them be. Make a decision for your present and live victorious. As you rise above your past and realize that your happy future awaits you, a new spirit of love and faith can arise in you!
7. Be childlike, playful and accept new challenges.
Children are playful and fun-loving. We should be too! Just because you’re a professional doesn’t mean you can’t be passionate and playful. Replace anxiety with creativity. Go back to the sandbox of life and start playing with new ideas and concepts. Challenge the status quo! Challenge yourself! Get out of your routine by doing new things, learning new sports, participating in new activities, taking up new hobbies, participating in a whole new social circle. Let the novelty flood your life and awaken the love for yourself and the surprises. By doing so, you will attract new life and love!
Learn from love and love. Learn about the Creator who lovingly gave Himself both for us and for us so that we can experience heaven on earth daily. Learn about love as you strive to gift your love to others and be the recipient of their love for you. Giving and receiving love is the most rewarding human experience. The agape love above is really better than life itself. Life without love is empty and meaningless. Life motivated by love is purposeful and glorious!