Understanding role models and characteristics of alpha women
At Alpha Relational Dynamics I like to deal with the Alpha female role models. Once you know your relationship to the ‘Alpha’ model of women, those who are of ‘lesser’ caliber (or any combination of them) you will know how to handle or work with.
Keep in mind that most dating coaches don’t even touch on the topic of female behavior… I don’t know why because it’s half the puzzle. Maybe because they just didn’t understand and put all the emphasis on the man…if it’s
failing ‘must’ be your fault.
With Alpha RD we have to look at the root of female behaviorism so that we can clearly see and align the relational elements in their proper place; just like an architect or a powerful producer would do.
Well then..
A woman (like a man) has three main behavioral characteristics; Natural, Internal and Social. From this she defines all her behavior (I just broke it down). Learn about her relationship with each of these roots
‘behavior’ at any level of development and you will be a powerful and effective womanizer.
NIS Alpha women can be considered as general stereotypes to help ‘train’ her in differentiating these characteristics.
As I define, there are natural alphas, internal alphas, and social alphas. I’ll just give you an overview here so you know what I’m talking about because you know these women; it’s time to really ‘see’.
In NIS order, I call these female Alpha models; Palmys, Prada’s and Prickteases.
The natural alpha role model I now call ‘Palmy’ (or pure, pastoral). She is named after the Thai singer Palmy, who is a perfect example of very strong natural feminine energy or character. She has innocence and purity to her character and it’s very easy to see, especially the more cognitive and alpha you become as a man.
The natural alpha woman is the most traditional woman as you know her. She hasn’t necessarily ‘developed’ as much as Prada and hasn’t been influenced as much as the Prickteases. Palmy would make a perfect wife because she has not been corrupted by unnatural dogmas or friction.
Few purely natural women remain in the social matrix. That’s why it’s so hard to see them. You pretty much have to leave the social matrix itself and go to a more natural and down-to-earth culture.
Ironically, these women still make up the majority of women around the world, but the Architects wouldn’t want you to know that because they would lose money and power.
The Alpha women you are most used to are the Prada and Prickteases who intimidate most men on a daily basis.
Pradas are the long-term girlfriend type (you think so). They are the intelligent, hardworking,
An ‘independent’ woman, with a career and who knows how to dress very well. You don’t think about having sex with her when you see her, but you love her energy about her and you still get discouraged from being with her.
They often have a distant and dismissive attitude towards men due to their acquired independence. Pradas are the ‘Inner’ Character Alpha women because they have developed a strong, independent and unique personality. You can think of them as representing New York City.
Examples would include Oprah Winfrey, Condi Rice, news anchors, fashion models (for womenswear), Nicole Kidmans, the bespectacled, ponytailed girl in a New York cubicle.
The Prickteases are the Social Alpha women. You could say they represent Los Angeles. They usually have bleached blonde hair, fake breasts, sexy tight clothing and are
she used to be the encouragement as her role models to Playboy girls and porn stars.
They will display their T&A on the Internet, in nightclubs or in men’s magazines.
They are almost dependent on the social ‘game’. The stereotypical Pricktease (playboy girl) has a low internal character compared to that of Prada.
And all the other women are a general mix, usually of sub-Alpha quality. Now, of course, every woman is different and unique, but that falls within her Inner Character.
A great point here of being aware of these root ‘behaviourists’ is so that you can relate to down-to-earth women. When you understand her relationship at any level of her development and can realize that she is still a person like you, you can stop turning her into a ‘Pussaliath’.
its Inner and Social character are both causally rooted and ‘logical’. It’s her natural character that matters, so you can override whatever level of development she has in relation to you because it’s the natural character that matters anyway.
When you are equal to her and don’t overbuild her characteristics (because now you understand them), you will be able to appreciate her for what she is instead of being blinded by it.
So every woman has a little bit of Palmy, Prada and Pricktease in her. Everyone is different, but it is these three alpha female role models that will train you for power.
Because when you know your relationship to the most extreme and desirable ‘alpha’ model of each of them (ie a Paris Hilton social alpha), you’ll also know your relationship to every other woman representing any level of power.
There is a lot more training to do in this area so I encourage you to find out more because this is the real solution because instead of ignoring your leveraged (socially entrenched) power you will be able to go through it all and see the real woman while retaining your power and please.