Introducing sex toys into a new relationship
Granted, breaking into the bathroom on a leash may not be the ideal way to introduce sex toys into a new relationship, and telling your man how much he likes your dildo can make him feel inadequate, but initiating the use of sex toys. Together in a new relationship can be an exciting and exciting step.
Whatever your confidence level when using toys, it’s best to start slow and simple so you don’t intimidate your other half if you’re less confident. Start with Enhancers – Luxury massage oil or a tingling lube is sure to enhance any sexual experience. Tease and excite your partner with a gentle feather tickle for a more intense orgasm later. Sex toys can and should enhance your sexual experiences together. People seem to forget that toys can be romantic if you and your partner enjoy getting wet together; Suction handles or footrest make shower sex even more fun.
There are many toys designed for couples to enjoy together. Experiment with what it does for both you and your partner. Remote control vibrators are great for cheeky fun that you can take anywhere. Give your partner the remote control and let him make you moan with pleasure with the push of the button. Cock rings are not just for your pleasure, both of you can feel the pleasure of a vibrating cock ring: the ring will make your erection last longer, while the vibrations will stimulate your clitoris sending pulses of pleasure for both of you.
Sex toys aren’t all dildos and straps, there are plenty of fun games to get both of you in the mood. Play naughty dice or sex favor cards for fantastic foreplay. You can’t beat a slow striptease to excite any man, take part in a game of strip poker for the perfect erotic fun. Not everyone feels safe participating in a role-play with their partner – buy yourself a costume that you know will leave your partner asking for more, and you’ll be amazed at how confident you can be.
Women may enjoy using their vibrators alone, but men may be intimidated by some toys, suggest demonstrating your vibrator in front of your boyfriend; Men are very visual and will love to get turned on by watching their partner pleasing herself. A vibrator can provide amazing stimulation for your man on the head, shaft and base of the penis. Anal vibrators can help get a great high for both men and women, talk to your partner about what they enjoy, and end up looking for things to play online together.
Sex toys don’t have to mean your relationship is wearing thin, they can be a completely normal part of your relationship and experiences together. In fact, sharing such an intense and intimate experience with the help of sex toys can strengthen the bond you have with your other half.